I had a very interesting conversation with my friends X and Y a while ago.
She wanted to marry someone her parents didn't approve of.
And Y asked her..
is he worth it?
is the battle worth it?
is your parents anger and disapproval worth it?
is your family's scorn worth it?
i stayed quiet through out the whole thing.
Sometimes you can never give the right advice no matter what you say.
but in my opinion Y forgot to ask the most important question of all
are YOU worth it?
We spend so much of our time thinking about everything and everyone else.
Is the journey worth it?
It should be are YOU worth the journey
is he worth the battle
it should be are YOU worth the battle
i think it would be a lot easier for people to come to a satisfying decision when they put themselves in the heart of the situation.
Stop thinking about everything else but yourself.
I'm not trying to encourage ppl to be selfish here.
But you cant always be selfless.
How can you possibly live your life to its full potential when u always take yourself out of the equation?!
Do you get what I'm trying to say here?